Plus size women online want you to know how rough they have it. Whether it’s finding someone who will embrace their “fat pride” or even just the struggles of being queer and fat. It would seem the internet is full of these body positive keyboard warriors. Their latest struggle? Overcoming the “stigma” fat women apparently face when they refuse to settle for overweight men. With modern feminist logic dictating that even the largest ladies should still be able to score themselves a true hottie of a man.

In fact there is an increasing amount of real scientific data to prove the concept that women are far pickier and more unrealistic in terms of rating the physical attractiveness of potential partners. With one study done using data pulled from the popular dating app Tinder revealing that “the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% of women are competing for the top 20% of men.” This basic trend is only confirmed in another study, this time pulling from OKCupid data, which found these results.


While this isn’t to say that men don’t prefer sexier skinnier women in general, as lab tested research has already confirmed they do. What this data implies is that men tend to be either far less picky in terms of actually finding a mate, or at least far more realistic about their own appearance and what that entitles them to expect in return. You never seem to find stories of fat men demanding their right to be with un-obese women. But the reverse is clearly untrue if these popular body positive images being spread around Feminist blogs are to be believed.

I'm a plus-sized woman but I'm not attracted to big guys. I get a lot of hate and criticism for it but I can't help that I like average to muscular types.

Yes, as a Plus Size Woman, I do not date other plus size people. It's because I'm not attracted to bigger guys. It's genetics, preferences & that's just the way it is.

Just because I'm plus size doesn't mean I have to settle for someone I'm not attracted to. I just don't like overweight men. I want my fairy tale like everyone else.

Close examinations of Tinder data always tend to uncover inconvenient or surprising truths, such as that women of all racial backgrounds tend to prefer dating white men. In this case though the results really are rather depressing. With one experiment revealing the following facts.

The male is likely to “like” the female 6.2 times more often than the female “likes” the male.

The Tinder economy has more inequality than 95.1% of all the world’s national economies.

A man of average attractiveness would be “liked” by approximately 0.87% (1 in 115) of women on Tinder. 

In fact women of all body types tend to be so picky that even the most attractive men will be liked by only approximately 20% of all the females on Tinder. Though given the apps huge user-base that still of course means quite a few available women for those lucky 20% of men. Despite this clear non attraction of even overweight women to larger men, females online continue to rage over every example of a fit male not wanting to be a chubby chaser. It should be noted though that thankfully there are at least a few women online who address the harsh realities of the situation at least.

I'm over weight and I'm not attracted to other people who are over weight. It's true. Over weight people are just not attractive

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  • Stark Van Cooley

    Today’s women are far more interested in the sexy bulge in men’s pants…their wallets

    • But it depends on their age as to which bulge they like. When a woman is 18-26, she seeks alpha types (bad boy attitude, bulging cock, abs and muscles). At age 27 they have a moment of clarity. Then at age 28-35 they start to desire men who make money or have a bulging wallet. This reprioritization coincides with a woman’s age, waning fertility and increased desire for resources. Women become more resource hogs when they get older for a multitude of natural reasons. One of which is their biological clock and seeking resources to help with their children who are also becoming a drain on her. Sadly enough, most of these women during their younger years bring children that they received from Alpha type males into the relationships with beta money types once they woman becomes older and less attractive. As the saying of female dualistic sexual strategy goes: Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. My thoughts are, if you are beta, you can instantly become more alpha by not sharing your bucks on old women or single mothers.

      • northern vigor

        Now women breed the alpha males in their teens, and twenties…then get the beta guys to pay for the offspring in their thirties and forties. Maybe the old societies were on the right trail when the families chose the marriage partners and didn’t depend on a horny kid to decide the future of their family’s future genetics
        I bet I get some down votes and replies on this one.

  • Blargh

    this is why STD rates in 2016 increased, despite people having less sex.

    • Nickel

      Women are having sex in their youth with the 20% of same men. The rest get crumbs or quit the dating market.

    • Patrick Donegan

      Do you have any data to support that?

    • Jay Jackson

      If you think these bitches aren’t out here fucking, you’re an idiot.

  • Online dating is flooded with men that can only “approach” via online (literally, that is the only way they make a move on women). Thus, the typical “woman as sexual gatekeeper” is exaggerated, as the “gates” are flooded with men that would never step up in person… but do so with spam-like precision online.

    …and thus the ego of the “gate keeper” swells. Hot gate keepers, yes. And even not-so-hot gatekeepers.

    There is an alternative to “begging at the gates”… talk to girls “IRL,” as they say.

    Viva Daygame.

    • Not a bad assessment… Never really thought about it like that… I’ve never gotten anywhere online unless I dig deep and find a home body woman and that is very hard to sniff out. However IRL, I have get a very good response from women.

      • Good for you, Maverick. And the skillset you learn by talking to girls in real life serves you in every area of your social life. “Swiping” endlessly… not so much.

  • Wracu

    They’re in for a world of emotional let down. Why would someone want them

    • MAGA68

      Easy lay. It’s Tinder, not Eharmony.

  • im lost

    proves without any doubt the 80/20 rule, hypergamy & picky women

  • KenA

    As near as I can tell, there is zero in the study specific to the preferences of overweight women. It is only about the preferences of women in general. The “fat women demand thin men” angle appears to be purely something added by this article’s author, for whatever his reasons. It might or might not be actually true, the study has no evidence.

    • Well, ok. But do you dispute the true statistics that women only seek out the top 20% of men? This appears to be a matter of fact and factual statistics support this claim. If this is acceptable, could we potentially extend this same reasoning that even overweight women tend to be very picky about the men just as their thinner counterparts are? Regardless, this chatter came from the comments of a plus sized model who said she was uninterested in fat men… And then this leads to another highly visible problem of how we define bigger people:
      bigger women = “plus sized”. bigger men = “fat”.

      • KenA

        What the data suggest is that women are much pickier than men, and only a very small fraction of men are so attractive that they set aside their pickiness. What you call “reasoning,” about fat women, is speculation–their rejection of fat men may be common or rare, the data tell us nothing. Maybe someone will measure that someday, it might be interesting.

    • Joseph Jackson

      Sometimes you just have to do your own studies. From my experience he’s spot on, I’ve been whoring and observing for at least 25 years, showing and telling them what they want to see and hear. Nothing has changed for me since but the fact that I’m in my forties now so it’s more of hobby to test various hypothesis than sex. The thing to remember is that they have no real honor, integrity or sense of community as we do, they do whatever it takes to get what they “think” they want at men’s expense.
      I still date women in their 20s, taking advantage of their arrogance and stupidity because of course they think they know everything. I guess what I’m really getting at is statistics are nothing without experience.

  • Hernan Saavedra
    • The English on this meme is horrendous. xD

  • Stark Van Cooley

    I lost 170 pounds of ugly fat…I got divorced

  • I have noticed that most couples who are together for like ten years or more have basically the same level of body fat, and some families are like this… you see the fat parents and know the kids are going to be fat by the time they are teenagers. Sad. I was a fat kid for awhile and it is hell. I would not put a kid thru it myself. These overweight women who want hot guys, are the ones who usually have much, much better jobs than the men they support — who are usually boffing hotties on the side, though I suppose there are some chubby chasers out there… I cannot believe I am wasting my time commenting on this…

  • I wish idiot feminists would stop doing things that make me ashamed of being a woman.

  • Jay Hurley

    How did the studies quantify attractiveness?